Saturday, March 2, 2013
Jesus is at the heart of modesty.
Friday, January 11, 2013
good girls make weak women.
Saturday, October 20, 2012
I'm a terrible blogger
My goal next month is to blog twice, so I'm spending the remainder of October intentionally praying for the Spirit to lead me.
Until then, here are a few blogs that bless me EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I read them. I love being part of a family of believers who want nothing more than to obediently document their journey with Christ.
Susan Daniels: Semi-Homemade Suzie.
April Kirby: Ramblings of Young Christian Woman.
Holly Furtick: The Preacher's Wife.
Nicki Koziarz: Nicki Koziarz.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
break my heart for what breaks Yours...
show me how to love like you have loved me.
Break my heart for what breaks yours,
everything I am for Your kingdom's cause."
~Hillsong United
over the past few months i've tried to focus on the reasons why the Lord has me where i am and why He brings certain people in my life. i've made it a point to be intentional in my relationships and pray over conversations with people i believe He has brought me for a reason. last wednesday i had a meeting with an acquaintance from church, Cortney, about a ministry she has started that was confirmation of God's purpose for my life.
those of you who know me, know i've always been labeled a "fixer". not a label i'm always proud of; it's caused me a lot of pain in my past when i wasn't running after the Lord, but something i've recently accepted as a God given gift when used under His guidance and direction. my heart is heavy for three specific social issues in brazil: human trafficking, sexual exploitation and orphan children. Cortney's ministry, One Less Ministries, has a mission to raise awareness about these and other issues while saving lives... one less orphan, one less victim of human trafficking, one less victim of sexual exploitation and one less victim of poverty.
you know why my heart is heavy?
27 million people are enslaved world wide
over 146 million children are orphans
every 2.2 seconds an orphan child ages out of the system with nowhere to go
over 925 million people are hungry
there are more prostitutes than Christians in Thailand
there are more children in the sex trade in brazil than there are prostitutes in thailand
human trafficking grosses over $9.5 billion a year
prostitution is often considered a victimless crime: girls start between 12 and 14 years old
over half the world, over 3 billion people, live on less that $2.50 a day
these statistics break God's heart.
Cortney's ministry has a heart for broken and hopeless people all over the world who are living in physical and spiritual bondage without Christ. meeting with her was a huge answer to prayers i've prayed every day for months. she came to me knowing my passion for brazil and is asking me to join in praying for how we can help give women and children physical and emotional freedom from their current lives and spiritual freedom through a loving Savior. as she and i sat in the cafe talking about her vision and God's call, my heart was filled with the strong desire to do something now...to fix this problem now! One Less Ministries believes (and God's Word says in Matthew 25:40) that sitting back and doing nothing is disobedience to a Father whose heart breaks for His children living in bondage.
Can you run, walk, or wheel?
Then you can do your part to help NOW!
One Less Ministries is teaming up with Chick-fil-A to raise money and awareness and give one person freedom.
freedom from slavery, sexual exploitation, abuse, and poverty
freedom in Christ!
Please check out the website below and register
"Delayed obedience is disobedience"
~David McCaman
"This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear Children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth!"
~1 John 3:16-18
**statistics from onelessministries.org and compassion.com**
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
I fell in love with a country...
over the past couple of months i've been obsessed with Katie Davis's story and her heart for Uganda. from the first blog i read of hers, i felt drawn to her and thought to myself, "she gets me!" it's hard to explain to people my love for brazil, i get a lot of "why brazil? we have poverty here. we have orphans in america. people on your street need to know Jesus. your family is here..." i agree 100% with those statements, there's kingdom work to be done all over the world and God calls us to "make disciples of all nations" (Matthew 28:19) and that includes where i am now. God has provided opportunities to share His love with people i work with, live next to, my students, my family and strangers...my time here isn't being wasted, but my heart still longs for brazil. i've prayed over my testimony for months, parts of my journey with Christ are shameful and filled with a lot of painful memories, but at the end of every heartache...there He stands. He has not only gotten me through every situation but He's been glorified and His plan has slowly unfolded from every experience i've had since college. i'm about to share things with you that i've never shared with anyone, but God's been telling me for months that i need to let my guard down and let Him work through my shameful, yet beautiful, story of His grace and perfect plan to reach hearts of others. so here it goes...
In May of 2005, I first stepped foot in Brazil and furthering God's kingdom was the last thing on my mind! All I could think about was being able to spend every day of the next 4 months with the man I love, but God sure had a different plan. For nearly 4 years, my love for Brazil stemmed from my love for this incredible man and his family. My summers spent there were centered around a life I was building with him. The key words there are “the life I was building”...though I made decisions about my relationship prayerfully, I never stopped to truly seek God's plan or question this heavy burden He had placed on my heart for this amazing country. I never thought twice about Brazil before I met Felipe but fell in love with everything about the people and culture as soon as I got there. God's word tells us that He already has a plan for us, and no matter how hard we disobey Him or follow after our own selfish desires, His plan will prevail! I always knew that God had a bigger plan for me there than being a wife of a Brazilian, but it took having to give up what I wanted more than anything in my life to truly see what He had in store.
Felipe and I spent 3 months apart and 4 months together over the next 3 years. He and I had planned to be married one summer while I was visiting. I had met with an immigration lawyer here to have all the necessary paperwork and couldn't wait to be his wife and be able to stay with him while he finished school so we could stop spending months apart. One day we went to get married and it turns out I didn't have my birth certificate stamped, an oversight that changed our plans. I was scheduled to go back home in a couple of weeks so I didn't have time to send it back to the states to get it stamped and have it back to us on time. We were both devastated and all I could see it as was a sign that we weren't meant to be married but he was eternally optimistic and assured me that it would all work out and immediately tried to come up with a plan B. Over the next year, the distance became harder for both of us, our plans just weren't lining up. God kept tugging on my heart that this was not the relationship he wanted for me but I ignored it. Felipe was an amazing man...he was insanely intelligent, hard working, supportive, driven, funny and loved everything about me. I never imagined loving someone so much or feeling so loved but God constantly reminded me that the man He has for me will not only love me but also love Him with all of his heart. I prayed over Felipe's heart for God since the day I met him, we had conversations about it almost daily and I just knew that God would draw him close through our relationship. Felipe always respected my relationship with God and loved talking to me about it, he went to church with me every Sunday and even prayed with me. But our relationship was not centered around God because we didn't both love God.
Once I moved to Tennessee and he spent some time in England studying, we grew further and further apart and both agreed that we needed time to ourselves. We had both sacrificed a lot of ourselves to be together. He spent every one of his summers in the states with me instead of traveling and I had given up all of my dreams to be with him and help him follow his dreams, and I never regretted it for a minute but it weighed heavy on Felipe that I had sacrificed so much. It wasn't an easy decision for either of us and we really couldn't explain to anyone why we felt this way, but we knew it was the right decision. We still kept in touch, which made it harder for both of us and finally we thought it was best that we not talk anymore. Of course I thought this was a stupid idea after about a week, but I respected him and trusted him so we stopped all communication for months.
After this painful breakup, I was devastated and never felt further from my God. I went months without having a conversation with my ridiculously faithful and patient God. I was angry and confused and wanted nothing to do with a God that took away my best friend and I couldn't even begin to see him in the situation. I spent months drinking and staying out late with people that encouraged me that this was the way to move on, embrace the single life! My best friend, Kym, wrote me a long letter expressing her concerns about my choices, it was kind of a wake up call for me but I still wasn't ready to forgive God (as if I'm that important, huh?) Kym and I have been best friends since 10th grade. She is the best person I know and the only person in this world that truly knows me and my heart, but her words sometimes angered me more. She was married to an amazing man that loved God, owned a house, had a great job, a baby on the way, had an awesome family back home ...things seemed to always fall into place for her and I had become so bitter that her loving words had little impact on me. After the letter from Kym, I did slow down a little. I was more aware of how much I had been drinking, I could see that the men I was spending my time had no respect for me and that I missed having godly friends. Less than a year after Felipe and I broke up I jumped into long unhealthy and ungodly relationship with another man. This was the beginning of 3 years of a life of sin and I had become someone I wasn't. Throughout this relationship, I still couldn't stop thinking about Brazil, my heart longed to be there but it didn't make sense for me to go back and the man I was with had no desire to go to a place where Felipe and I shared so many memories.
I finally reached a point in my life where I knew I needed more of God. More than going to church occasionally, more than praying over meals, more than begging him to change my boyfriend or give me the strength to forgive him and “fix” him. One night I was so deeply sad that I cried out to God, “Why did you put me in these situations? Why did you bring me Felipe just to take him away, why did you allow me to get so caught up in another relationship that doesn't honor you?” I remember in that moment feeling God tell me, “I never brought you to this point, I was never part of any of this! But I've been waiting for you.”
Around that time, an old boss of mine, Brad Bynum, invited me to go to Lifepoint. It was initially weird going back to church and actively seeking God, rather than going on Sundays out of obligation. I met people that loved God and had a heart for missions, and specifically for Brazil! I had become so used to trying to control my life, getting caught up in sinful relationships and living a life that didn't reflect Christ that it was hard to surrender that control. Over the course of a year, God drew me back to Him and back to Brazil through my constant surrender of every area of my life to Him. Last summer I went back to Brazil, but this time for a very different reason. After spending a day loving on kids and families that so desperately longed for love, a love of my Savior through our hugs, time and gifts. The first night I was there I broke down and thanked God for taking control of my life and bringing me back to where I had longed to be. I could go on forever about what God showed me that week, but I'll save that for the next blog!
God is crazy good, and His plan is crazy perfect. Brazil has always been where God wanted me, but my stubbornness got in the way...but His plan always prevails!
"It was only after God brought me to a place where I didn't want to be that He brought me to a place I truly longed to be." ~Anonymous
"Whatever you do, He will make good of it. But not the good He had prepared for you if you had obeyed him." ~C.S. Lewis"